stuck with choosing between two choices
two choices.
both are good.
but you can't do both.
and you can't decide which one you should go for.
there is no wrong choice here.
anything you do will be right.
the only mistake you can make is if you don't make a decision and you end up having neither.
you can't choose wrong because you can't choose both.
you make a choice and you live with it and you never look back.
there will be many more choices down the road that you will have to make.
and you will have to make these choices. if you want to keep moving forward.
if you're stuck with two choices, pick one.
do everything you can to make it work.
and if it doesn't work, come back again and pick the other one. if opportunity allows.
if not, you live with it and you learn. and you keep looking forward.
there will always be more choices to make.
I really love this guy, but I’m stuck because I don’t know what to do, we will never work in the future due to religion, ethnicity etc etc, and he’s made it clear that nothing can actually go further, I told him I loved him 2 months in and he didn’t say it until recently (7 months later) but I don’t think he really means it, deep down it feels like he only said it so I won’t leave, I know he really likes me and cares for me but I’m torn between living in the moment or easing the pain before it gets any harder, I would honestly appreciate any advice or anything you have to say, also I really love reading what you post, I’m always on insta going through your posts because they’re so real! Huge fan!
I really needed this, thank you so much for existing and having that kind of wisdom. You are really a blessing.
I’m gonna fucking work this thing out as long as i can and if it still failed then I’ll make another decision. IT’S MY FREAKIN LIFE AND I AM IN FREAKIN CONTROL
This is tough. I have a strong sense of love for 2 individuals. I know I can’t be with both. At this moment they are both distant. I’m so torn right now. I’ve been single and independent most of my life. I’ve pondered over the one way ticket away, but I know I need to make a choice.
I actually really enjoyed this because I get stuck and watch opportunities pass by often. It reminded me of a poem I wrote and since you said to write “whatever the fuck I want,” I decided I’d leave this here. I hope you enjoy the poem and the references lol
I want to live a life so well
That I welcome death as an old friend
They say it does not do to dwell
All life will come to an end
Might as well make it count
While we still have time to change
There is still an enormous amount
Of things I need to arrange
I want to write glorious books
With characters that inspire and grow
Make stories that fill lives with magic
Dreams and happiness I’ll bestow
If I could touch a life
That would be the end game
I want to change someone’s life
But I don’t care much for the fame
Stories have filled my days and nights
There is so much books have taught me
I wish to pass it on to others
These stories make us feel free
There is so much I want to do
And so much more I have to say
The present is the only guarantee we have
So for now, I’ll bid you a good day
-Jordan Huizar
This honestly came in such perfect timing lol. I’m currently having to choose schools and tracks for senior high school and IT SO HARDDDD. Thank you so much for sharing this!
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