stuck with choosing between two choices
two choices.
both are good.
but you can't do both.
and you can't decide which one you should go for.
there is no wrong choice here.
anything you do will be right.
the only mistake you can make is if you don't make a decision and you end up having neither.
you can't choose wrong because you can't choose both.
you make a choice and you live with it and you never look back.
there will be many more choices down the road that you will have to make.
and you will have to make these choices. if you want to keep moving forward.
if you're stuck with two choices, pick one.
do everything you can to make it work.
and if it doesn't work, come back again and pick the other one. if opportunity allows.
if not, you live with it and you learn. and you keep looking forward.
there will always be more choices to make.
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You always find a way to say what I need to read in the right moment.
thank u for that. I think is time to be brave and make some choices.
Thanks for this. I am really stuck between two choices. I am doing last year of my school. Next year..I am moving to college. My dad wants me to peruse a good medical profession. And I respect that, but I think I will do better in arts. Btw I know at last I’m gonna choose arts cos it’s my dream. Being a doctor was my father’s dream. If I’ll complete his dream then who will complete mine; my children lol! But still I am stuck. I don’t have guts to tell this straight to my dad. It’s so hard for me. But I know I will have to. Cos I don’t want after 10 years I’ll have to look back and dwell in guilt. Maybe creative field won’t have the same security as in medical profession but I think I am made for the unexpected. And in my journey..thanks for being a role model, ron. Thank you for everything!
I’m just so confused with my life right now, nothing is going in favour of me.
This article was much needed. Thank you Ron for boosting us up:)
Thank you for this. I’ve to make pretty important long term decision rn, and I needed this so bad. It’s like I am so damn confused but it helped, thank you. Much love to you!
well.. received this at exactly 10:15 pm in the Philippines. after seeing its subject, I was a bit shocked bcs this is exactly where I am right now. I am stuck with choosing between two choices and its if I should “stay or leave”. We all know it’s hard. Well, atleast for me. I know in myself that it’s hard to make a decision between staying or leaving. Especially if we are talking about love and relationship. But what makes it hard is it has no label. But it has been over a year. A year of just good morning and good night messages with i love you’s. I don’t know how did it keep on going. Despite short simple communications like that, cold messages, late replies. Despite whatever, the two persons decided to stay. But now, one side is stuck with two choices. While, the other one, i don’t know. I honestly do not know how the other person feels, thinks, and what does it want. I want to know them all, but I don’t know how to ask it. Everytime I am trying to do it, I just can’t. My body would just get numb. There’s a part of me saying that I should stay— the part that believes the goodness in the other person, that someday a thing might change, that maybe if I stay we can fix it. But I know nothing will happen if we don’t communicate. And that’s the number one problem. We really do not communicate each other’s feelings, thoughts, and emotions. So how would we know? How would we know what to do. What to say? How and where to begin going back to each other? And on the other side, is the part me that saying I should leave. Because nothing ever happens at all. The part that believes if a person wants, a person would. The part of myself who believes that I can manage to be on my own, set myself free, let go of what keeps me holding back from repeating memories that should’ve been left already. deep sighs Ron, this would be the first ever confession that I would be doing to unknown someone. I do not know how i ended to say whatever the fuck I want and yes this is my honest truth. So yeah, I guess I just can’t keep this to myself for so long. Having no one to talk with ‘cause I just don’t want anyone to know. For the sake of the reputation and peace of people involved.
Anyways, thank you for your writings. Sometimes it is just a good feeling that there’s someone you can relate to. So yeah that’s it. :’)
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